Our presentation describes the strengths and abilities commonly experienced by autistic girls* aged 3-16 years, as well as key challenges, including friendships and family relationships, strong emotions such as anxiety, anger and depression, managing meltdowns and shutdowns, navigating school and possible academic issues, developing an authentic sense of self and self-awareness, executive function, including ADHD. Our presentation is based on recent relevant research and our combined 80 years of experience in autism.